T.O.D.

When is it appropriate to call time of death on a friendship?

Most friendships just end naturally, you drift apart and just don't talk anymore.

There are friendships that end in fights. But from TV to Ann Landers most mediums send the message that the friendship is more important than the fight. Burrying the hatchet will leave you with a friendship to last a lifetime. Leaving that hatchet to loiter in the sun will leave you with a lifetime of regret. With all this helpful advice it would seem that no matter the cause of the blowout friends should stay friends forever.

Relationships break up. There is almost invariably a moment that can be cited as the official break up. While often it is argued that the relationship was emotionally over a long time previous to the offical T.O.D. there is usually a point that can be said without question that the relationship is done.

Friendships rarely part with such precision.

What if a relationship is toxic? Dissappointing? Is it possible to call an end to a friendship without being labeled as someone callous?

The real question of this entry I guess is, did I use callous in the right context? Did I even spell it right? Damn my laziness. Dictionary.com is not that far away and yet callous (sic???) remains unchecked.

A big week and courses!!!

I had a very big week last week. The highlight of which was celebrating Jocelyn's birthday. We bingoed!!! I almost won 1 500! I would have been rich! But such was not the case.

I signed up for courses! I got most of what I wanted. There were two crim courses that I did not get, but I will take them next year. My only non degree course is Sociology of language. How cool is that? First semester I will be learning mostly psych. I will post later about specifics. I will be learning about young offenders and the sociology of language.

I now get to fill out my new organizer!!! yay!

Oh! Michael. If you don't mind would you please remove your link to my blog from your blog? I would appreciate it because there a few people I would prefer not to find this blog. thank you.

Various ponderings

I don't know if I've posted this before but if I have then I'm sorry.

I'm dissappointed with my vitamins. I've been taking them for awhile because my doctor said I should. I was secretly hoping they would give me super powers. Well not like being able to fly kind of super powers but you know, me, but better. I have yet to notice a difference.

Does anybody know who uses unwaxed dental floss? Cause I don't think anybody does. I know that unwaxed dental floss used to have a purpose, like before we got the waxed stuff. But we have the waxed stuff now. I think the only reason it's still for sale is because people keep picking it up by accident. They're in a hurry and pick up dental floss not stopping to check if it's waxed or unwaxed, why? Because they cannot believe that unwaxed is still for sale! Cause it hurts and it's awful.

My white t-shirt

I am in love with my new white t-shirt. I have never owned a white t-shirt before. All white was resereved for wearing under my uniform. But now that I am wearing one, it's fantastic. It's so crisp and clean. It even survived taco night. I like it when simple things make me happy.

Cottage stuff

I had an amazing time at Mike's cottage. Paddle boating with Jocelyn and swimming. I got to meet some of Mike's Bingo friends, they are quite nice. I played poker and it was amazing! Texas hold em. I won a whole round!!! I rocked. But I also lost a lot. Oh and I read on the dock for hours. It was an amazing weekend, so amazing that I did not mind the return of LOBSTER GIRL. Except this time Lobster girl had spread. But now has faded to a brilliant tan.

I am now watching Extreme Home Makover. I love this show. I meam it's all about making people cry with the heartwrenching stories, but still, I love this show.

I am currently reading Christopher Reeve's book.. .ok I don't remember the title, but it's good. I am a little thrown off cause I always thought his name was Christopher Reeves. With an s but it's not

It appears that I will be haning out with Jon and the Deepinator more often. I can only say that I am extremely excited.